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| March 23/24, 2002 |
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The Perils of Power--1
CONNIE: Is there such a thing
as a true hero anymore? Someone we can look up to without fear of being
disappointed? Come with us as we look at the life of one of the Bible's
greatest heroes--David the king. CONNIE: Hello, I'm Connie Jeffery,
LONNIE: and I'm Lonnie Melashenko,
and today we're continuing our journey through the books of the Bible--looking
this time at the action-packed book of 2 Samuel. CONNIE: We hope you've been enjoying
our quick trip through the Bible. As you've probably noticed, if you're
a regular listener, we're taking you on a tour of the whole Bible, while
keeping a strong emphasis on the Gospel. LONNIE: Last week we took our topic from a Gospel story, and we will again next week. But on alternate weeks, we take a look at some other biblical book--and we're working our way through the Old Testament right now.We really encourage our listeners to be Bible students, to get involved in our Discover Bible lessons, and to dig in and read the Bible for themselves. CONNIE: Our goal in these programs
is to help you get an overview that brings each Bible book clearly into
focus, and see how it applies to life today. LONNIE: 2nd Samuel focuses on
the reign of one of the greatest biblical heroes, King David. CONNIE: Actually there are two
Bible books that tell stories from David's reign. 2 Samuel AND 1 Chronicles,
so we'll be covering some of this territory again a few weeks from now.
But each book has its own unique slant on the story. LONNIE: One of the stories that
comes up in 2 Samuel concerns David's temporary fall from hero status.
His sin with Bathsheba. And there are important lessons to be learned
from that experience. CONNIE: One of the great things
about the Bible, to me anyhow, is the fact that it's a very honest book.
It doesn't cover up the foibles and flaws of its heroes. LONNIE: That's certainly true,
Connie, and the issues raised by that story are very current in our world
today. I've asked Chaplain Richard Stenbakken, a man with a lot of expertise
in the field of ethics among leaders, to join us today, as we look at
this story. LONNIE: Colonel Dick Stenbakken,
welcome to the Voice of Prophecy. RICHARD: Thank you Lonnie it's
good to be with you. LONNIE: You're a command chaplain
for the U.S. Army troops and at least were for a number of years in Alaska
RICHARD: That's correct, a beautiful
place. LONNIE: Now we are plunging into
the heart of 2 Samuel and for many years in your position dealing with
leaders you have seen challenges modern as well as ancient in sexuality
when it comes to ethics. What would you say about David? How could a person
who climbed to this height and knew the Lord so well get so overconfident
and have all these lustful thoughts, and down he went RICHARD: Well Lonnie it's something
that happens to people in all walks of life in leaders as well as followers.
Typically though people who are leaders find themselves in a very strong
almost burnt out thing because they're working out their passion of leading,
and that sometimes leads them to ignore their own human needs so there's
a little Mneumatic called H A L T. A person who is hungry, that means
emotionally hungry. Hungry for feedback that is positive if they don't
get it the A is for angry and oftentimes leaders feel very lonely because
it's a pyramid and it's very narrow at the top and some people don't know
how to approach people at the top. So it gets lonely up there, so L is
for lonely. And then the T is for tired so you get a person who is emotionally
hungry, angry, lonely and they're just almost a workaholic. They really
set themselves up for an emotional spiritual fall and often sexually that's
really the precursor to what happens. LONNIE: Very very interesting.
Now this would be almost akin to something we call today sort of a mid-life
crisis, but these internal insecurities open the door to step over a threshhold
that they would never normally even dream of. How can a spiritual person
especially be vulnerable to something like that? RICHARD: Well I think there's
several things. One thing, people who are religiously inclined whether
they be leaders or followers tend to say "Oh no that could never
happen to me." It's a thing called denial. LONNIE: yes RICHARD: When we deny any reality,
we put ourselves at high high vulnerability. I think that's what happened
with David. LONNIE: We all have basic needs
and we rather than saying "Well I'm happily purring along doing my
work here" we need to pay attention to those needs. RICHARD: Oh absolutely. And I
think scripture shows that very clearly. David made some real blunders.
First of all, as we look at Samuel and the account there, David was back
home when the troops were out in the field. Leaders lead from the front,
not from the rear. And I think he was just hungry, angry, lonely, and
tired and stayed home to pout. And that set him up for a real fall. LONNIE: So… designed for disaster
right there. RICHARD: Absolutely LONNIE: Well, how does this happen?
With clergy leaders and hard workers, why are they sometimes the most
vulnerable and exposed to toppling? RICHARD: I think one of the things
that come up with religious leaders, particularly is that good religious
ministry is very similar to almost a precursor to sexuality. And in some
of my studies myself that I kind of come to is that good "pastoral
ministry" and "good sexuality" consist of a bunch of things.
Number one it meets human needs. So pastoral ministry does that and good
sexuality does that. Both are intense. Both are very personal and individualized.
In other words, when I'm giving Bible studies to another person, studying
Scripture with them, I try to individualize that to their need. Same as
true sexuality. There's special attention that's being paid to each other.
There's blocked time. There are emotions that get surfaced. There's caring
and tenderness. That which is covered gets revealed emotionally as you're
working with someone spiritually they don't tell you everything that's
on their heart, but little by little mentally they begin to reveal that
which is covered. There's an incremental intimacy and this is true of
sexuality. Then there's a move to a decision and a move to action and
of course all actions have consequences so often times good pastoral ministry
or good teaching or legal work or whatever. There's a very thin line between
that very intensely personal professional line and that which get to be
sexualized so easily. LONNIE: So a person can work
very hard, but somehow these signals can be read as a come on to some
people. RICHARD: That's right, so someone
maybe on one hand working diligently and saying I'm doing God's work here
and the other person may read that because each has their own need. Typically
men need to be very appreciated and if they don't get that from their
job and their working, with a woman and a woman shows them appreciation
because the male has done something positive for her then all of a sudden
things get to be misread. It's not necessarily by design that these things
happen it's again that sort of unwitting design for the pastor. LONNIE: Dick, wrap this up for
us in thirty seconds. Bring your special expertise into this area of the
power trap. RICHARD: Well I think anyone
who has power needs to be very careful that they set very very clear boundaries
for themselves and stay within those boundaries with God's help. LONNIE: We appreciate your insights.
Chaplain Dick Stenbakken. RICHARD: Thank you Lonnie, God
bless CONNIE: We don't want to focus exclusively on David's foibles and failings later in life. David was a hero, and a number of years ago the King's Heralds recorded this remembrance of one of David's finest hours: MUSIC 1: "Only a Boy Named David", King's Heralds CONNIE: Well…what a fun song!
Telling one of the favorite stories from the Bible. David and Goliath.
Imagery that's often evoked in our world when a small person or underdog
sets out to change the status quo. LONNIE: It's truly a classic
confrontation--good vs. evil; small versus big. But Connie, have you ever
wondered how this confrontation came about? Who are these Philistines
that Saul and David have to fight? Where did they come from, and why are
they trying to take over Israel's territory? CONNIE: I guess there was a lot
going on in biblical times that the Bible doesn't tell us about--things
happening in other parts of the world that end up having a major impact
on the biblical story. LONNIE: It really helps to see
the big picture, and that's why we're offering something very special
to our listeners today, courtesy of the producer of our program, Ken Wade.
Ken's going to join us in just a moment to tell us more about it, but
let me just say right now, if you're at all interested in the Old Testament
and the history surrounding the stories we're dealing with, you'll want
to take advantage of the free offer we have for you today. Colorful Bible
timeline charts that put the Bible story in historical perspective. CONNIE: Jot down this number
right now, 1-800-872-0055, and give us a call, and we'll send you two
of these beautiful charts that you'll find invaluable as you study through
the Old Testament. That number again is 1-800-872-0055, and these charts
are our gift to you. LONNIE: Ken Wade, you've come
in to the studio from behind the glass wall where you're usually directing
the program. As the writer and producer of our program, and we hear from
your voice from time to time on the air as well. You're known around our
offices, among other things, as our resident expert on Bible stories and
biblical history.I've been looking over one of your pet projects, and
I must say it's fascinating KEN: When I was reading history
in the bible, When I was in seminary. I was always confused. I was saying.
How does this relate? How does this person relate to that person? So I
thought If I could lay it out graphically. But there weren't the computer
programs then like there are now. With Coral Draw! program I was able
to lay out all these details. Makes it a lot easier to trace what was
happening when. LONNIE: I don't think a person,
Connie, out there can imagine what we're looking at right here on this
chart. CONNIE: I wish we were good at
describing it Lonnie: LONNIE: OH! Colors and you see
things form China going on at the same time. Jeremiah was prophecying.
It's awesome. CONNIE: And there are symbols
and it's beautiful. You know my son has done time lines in school and
I'm sure history teachers in school love these. LONNIE: From left to right Ken
what do these charts cover? LONNIE: So what interesting thing
did you discover by charting this all the way? KEN: We're talking about Philistines
in this program and you look at chart number two you see the Philistines
coming to Israel is partly a result of the turmoil around the Trojan war.
They spread out; they went they destroyed the Hittite Empire, they attacked
the Egyptians and finally settled down and started bothering David and
his friends. CONNIE: Now Ken you sell these
on the Internet, but today you're giving away free samples to the listeners.
Tell us why. KEN: Well I just really think
it would be helpful as we're going through the books of the Old Testament.
If people can get that picture that big picture of what's going on it
will help them get more of a blessing out of reading their Bibles. You
know I've had Sunday school teachers, home school teachers, history teachers,
a lot of people thank me for how I've helped them and their students better
understand what's going on in the Bible. LONNIE: Terrific, thanks Ken.
CONNIE: It's fascinating to get
the story behind the stories that we read in the Bible. David is one of
the best-loved Old Testament characters, and let's listen now as Lonnie
shares today's message, "1 Samuel, The Perils of Power." LONNIE: The commotion in Jerusalem was earth shaking. If you've been following the
news recently, you know that possession of the city of Jerusalem is an
issue that can shake the world. The whole city is in an uproar.
David--their king--the man who brought them peace by putting the Philistines
to flight--is now fleeing himself. But not from the Philistines or Moabites
or Ammonites or Aramaeans. He's fleeing from his own son. His own son Absalom has planned
a coup and had himself crowned king in his father's place. Now word has
arrived in Jerusalem that Absalom is on his way. There'll soon be a showdown
in the city streets. But David will have none of it. He won't see his beloved city
go up in flames. He won't hear of a siege that would leave its people
starving, its walls fractured and falling into the valleys. He would rather
surrender his throne, abandon his palace, and live the rest of his life
as a refugee than see Jerusalem in ruins. But why does he flee from his
own son? Why won't this great warrior stand and fight for his throne somewhere
outside the city? Well, for one thing, David realizes
that what is happening to him is God'srighteous judgment on him. You see, David was known as a
man after God's own heart. But he had his failings. God blessed him with
a kingdom and great power. But you know, friend, sometimes it's the blessings
that get the best of us. --When we begin to take them for granted. When
we begin to think that God has blessed us because we are good and righteous
and strong. When we start letting it all go to our heads. It happened to David. He became
a victim of the perils of power. He let his power go to his head, and
he abused it. In the matter of Bathsheba, and her husband Uriah. Adultery
was only the first step. One thing led to another, then another, until
"good" King David was guilty of murder. When it was all said and done,
the prophet Nathan warned him that his sin with Bathsheba would lead to
strife within his house. So David recognizes his trouble with Absalom
as part of God's righteous judgment on him. But mostly David abandons his
throne and his city because he knows these things belong to him only by
the grace of God. And if there is one sterling characteristic of David
that comes through in all the stories of his life, it is his trust in
God and his surrender to the will of God. Even when he sinned, even when
he failed God miserably, still he trusted. When he came to his senses,
this man of God always cast himself upon the mercy of God. You don't find
him making excuses or trying to justify himself. He just admits his sin
and asks forgiveness. So, notice what happens as David
and his household are hurrying out through the gates and down into the
valley, on their way to a life of homelessness. with him to give him victory!! Now--stop just a moment. Did you hear our program two
weeks ago, when I spoke about the lessons of the book of 1 Samuel? Let's
just take a quick refresher course. Remember, before David's time, when
the Israelites were being defeated by the Philistines. What did they do? They went to Shiloh, picked up
the ark, and took it with them into battle. No. Why not? Because they were trying to take
God with them. They were trying to press God into service in their cause,
rather than surrendering to God's will and letting Him lead them. And now, as he is fleeing from
Jerusalem, fleeing from Absalom, David is confronted with the temptation
to do the same. It is fully within his power to take the ark with him. Will he do it? Will he press
God into his service—tell the Lord of the universe where to go and what
to do? Listen to the story from 2 Samuel 15:24-26: As far as running ahead of God.
As far as taking matters into his own hands, David has been there, done
that. And it has brought nothing but trouble. He doesn't need any more of that.
So this time he entrusts himself into God's hands, rather than taking
God into his hands. He tells Zadok to take the ark
back into the city and commits himself into God's care and keeping. You find this attitude over and
over in the story of David. A phrase that occurs again and again is "David
inquired of the Lord." David asked God what to do, instead of telling
God what he wanted done. The book of 2 Samuel is full
of fascinating stories. In some places it reads almost like a romance
novel, in others a war diary. It's a story about a man and his family--and
especially about learning to know and trust God. Or is your world full of conflict?
Is someone trying to "steal your throne" right out from under
you? David's can teach you how to handle that as well. Entrust yourself
into God's care every day. Don't give up. Even when the Philistines--or
your own family--are on the attack and everything seems hopeless, He will
be there for you. Even in your weakest hour, He will be strong for you.
MUSIC 2: "His Strength Is
Perfect", American Boychoir
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