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WHEN TO PULL THE WEEDS #5
SOME THISTLES DO NEED THUMPING
He’s not as infamous as his former boss: Jim Bakker.
But Pastor Richard Dortch, who worked with Bakker as a former president
in the failed PTL organization, and who also went to jail for his part
in the scandal, has emerged from the pain and the punishment to write
a couple of excellent redemptive books. In Fatal Conceit he describes
an experience he once had as the executive presbyter of the Assemblies
of God denomination for a Midwest region. A church in his territory was
having troubles — political turmoil — and the pastor asked Dortch to come
and attend a board meeting and see if he could help.
Well, that wasn’t his favorite thing, but Pastor Dortch agreed to drive
down and sit in on the meeting. And as they got started that night, he
could just sense an attitude of division, of unrest, in the room. “This
church doesn’t have things together,” he thought to himself. And sure
enough. Not too far into the agenda, the group voted to spend a certain
amount of money for some project in the church.
However, as people were lowering their hands, Dortch heard a large man
sitting at the end of the table say right out loud: “I won’t write the
check.”
Dortch had already figured out that this guy was the treasurer of the
church, so this was a rather interesting statement to make. And after
an awkward silence that kind of hung right there in the room, the visiting
Christian leader turned to him and said, “Excuse me. I thought I heard
you say that you wouldn’t write the check.”
“Yes, I said it,” the treasurer said. “I won’t write the check to give
that money they just voted on.” And he stared insolently at both Dortch
and the pastor.
Wow! It was a heavy moment and the other board members held their breath.
Maybe they were thinking back to this Matthew 13 parable by Jesus, where
sitting right there in the board room, or “field,” as the Savior put it,
there was a poisonous weed or thistle among the wheat. Many good members
and one rebel. And Jesus said to His listeners, “But the owner of the
field told the workers to just leave the weed right there. Let him co-exist
with the wheat until the time for harvest. Then, and only then, would
the tares be gathered up and destroyed.” So maybe the board members were
thinking with a sigh, “This man’s a stinker. He’s always been a stinker.
He disrupts everything. He ruins our harmony. He’s holding us hostage
to his every whim. But we just have to live with it until the end of time.”
Well, what do you think happened? Dortch paused for just a moment as this
man’s rebellious statement hovered over the group like a cancerous cloud.
“I won’t write the check . . . and what are you gonna do about it, big
shot?”
Finally Pastor Dortch spoke. There was no anger in his voice, no screaming,
no tantrum. But this is what he said: “Well, sir, if that’s the case,
then we would be willing to accept your resignation. Your unwillingness
to follow what the board has decided makes you unqualified for the office.”
The man at the end of the table heard these strong words. They hit him
in the face. They stung his pride. And after flushing red in anger, he
stood up, pushed in his chair, and exited the room. He was gone. The weed
was gone. The problem was gone. The division was gone. And the pastor
said after the meeting, “Thank you, Pastor Dortch. That man had been bullying
everyone on the board long before I became the pastor.”
Well, do you know something? The human side of us says, “Right on! Go,
Pastor Dortch!” to that story. We relate to that kind of good power, that
quiet strength that pushes the bully to the side of the playing field.
But the Christian side of us, the Bible-reading side, the side that listens
to the parables of Jesus, says, “Wait a minute! Why didn’t that weed just
get left where he was? Aren’t we supposed to be patient with sinners,
including the big, overbearing, check-writing kind?”
We observed the other day that — parables or no parables — no Christian
church is going to install a pedophile as a Sunday School teacher. A pastor
who has rampant, promiscuous affairs isn’t going to be kept on — or shouldn’t
be kept on — as a marital counselor, or as a man assigned to tutor young
girls. There are some things that wisdom and common sense dictate. But
in the ranks of every church in the world today, friend, are believers
who struggle with lust, with alcohol, with pride, with tax improprieties,
with chronic lying, with bossiness. How does the Body of Christ know when
to pull up a weed, and when to leave the weed right there in the field
where it can do some lasting damage?
If you think this is a tough call, let me make it even more difficult.
Over in the book of First Corinthians, chapter five, the apostle Paul
writes to scold the young, fragile church there. How come? There’s a man
in the church, holding office in the church, sitting there in the church
Sabbath after Sabbath . . . and this man is having an affair with his
own mother-in-law. “That’s a kind of sexual immorality that doesn’t even
occur among pagans,” Paul writes in plain anger. And what does Paul say
about letting this poisonous weed stay in the field? No way! “Get him
out of there!” Paul writes, almost shouting in his penmanship.
Here’s his response, as modernized in The Message paraphrase by Dr. Eugene
Peterson. And be thinking about the wheat and the tares.
“I’m telling you that THIS IS WRONG,” Paul advises.
“You must NOT simply look the other way and hope it goes away on its own.
Bring it out in the open and deal with it in the authority of Jesus our
Master. Assemble the community — I’ll be present in spirit with you and
our Master Jesus will be present in power. Hold this man’s conduct up
to public scrutiny. Let him defend it if he can!” And now notice this
next line: “But if he can’t, then OUT with him! It will be totally devastating
to him, of course, and embarrassing to you. But better devastation and
embarrassment than damnation. You want him on his feet and forgiven before
the Master on the Day of Judgment.”
At the very end of the chapter Paul quotes from Deuteronomy
17, where the children of Israel are told:
“Expel the wicked man from among you.”
Well, friend, what do we make of this? Kick ‘em out.
DON’T kick ‘em out. Get rid of the weeds. DON’T get rid of the weeds.
What’s going on here?
We have to be wise in reading stories, and here are two careful conclusions
we can make. First of all, when a church kicks out an adulterer or a cheater
or a rebellious treasurer, that is not in a par with bundling up a pile
of weeds to be burned. When the weeds are burned — an act reserved for
God alone — that refers to eternal lostness. A weed that is burned up
is a soul that is damned to be lost. You and I couldn’t do that if we
wanted to, although there have been tragic periods in the history of the
Christian Church when it tried to take on that role. But here, in contrast
with that, Paul says explicitly that a man who sins in this flagrant,
defiant way needs to be sent away from the church in the hope that he
can eventually be redeemed. Verse five:
“You need to condemn this man’s actions because, in
so doing, you may be able to wake him up, turn his life around and save
his soul.”
So the Bible teaches us that a Christian isn’t to be
permitted to coast along in a precarious way where his or her soul is
in jeopardy. A person can’t flagrantly live in adultery, for example,
with the church — by its silent assent — saying to him, “You’re all right,
man. Grace is cheap; obedience isn’t required; witnessing to others through
our holy living isn’t important. Sin away.” The church cannot send that
kind of message, either to its own people, or to the watching community.
And of course – point #2 – it’s also true that the fragile flock in the
church, the helpless lambs, do need to be protected. As much concern as
we might have for a particular “weed” in the church, if it really is already
to the point of poisoning others — through pornography, or abuse, or even
just wrongful use of power like that treasurer was doing — then this principle
of First Corinthians five needs to be invoked. All through the New Testament,
the church is warned that false teachers will come along. Jesus Himself,
in Matthew 7, warned about this; He called them “ferocious wolves in sheep’s
clothing,” and said to watch out for them. We have a responsibility to
make sure the lambs in our care are taught the truth and protected from
lies.
Well, friend — as we shut the barn door here on Friday — we still aren’t
sure what to always do with the weeds. We need an extra measure of wisdom;
that’s for sure. I guess, just as farmers in their blue denim overalls,
are often out in the field on their knees, those of us working in the
spiritual garden need to be on ours a lot too.
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